{"id":429,"date":"2020-01-15T21:21:54","date_gmt":"2020-01-16T02:21:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.messysuitcase.com\/?p=429"},"modified":"2020-01-15T21:26:58","modified_gmt":"2020-01-16T02:26:58","slug":"back-in-the-saddle-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/messysuitcase.com\/index.php\/2020\/01\/15\/back-in-the-saddle-again\/","title":{"rendered":"Back in the Saddle Again"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

It\u2019s hard to believe it has been seven months since we left Mexico. A brief summer interlude in Vermont getting one of our vacation homes ready to sell and settling our youngest child, Gavin, into Champlain College in Burlington turned into a much longer stretch in the USA when Bob\u2019s mother, Jane, called us in August to say she had just been diagnosed with terminal cancer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Enjoying a boat ride in Montreal during a weekend off working on the Vermont houses<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

So after spending the summer painting a house, tiling a kitchen, planting two gardens, refinishing a floor, staining two decks, replacing windows, and doing more tasks than I care to remember on both houses \u2013 punctuated, thank God, by a couple of long weekends in Montreal and Burlington and many visits to local craft breweries \u2013 we moved into Jane\u2019s house in Mechanicsburg, PA, in October to care for her in her last months.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While living here, we kept busy. Lisa signed up for National Novel Writing Month (Nanowrimo<\/a><\/strong>) in November and wrote a long-postponed book. Bob threw himself into the editing of his many videos from our time in Mexico for the Messy Suitcase YouTube channel.<\/a><\/strong> We both spent countless hours studying Spanish and practicing our instruments (Bob saxophone, Lisa guitar). We spent 9 days in Cancun in November, during a period when Jane was doing better and we needed a break. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The official winner’s certificate for Nanowrimo. Lisa wrote a YA fantasy novel called Elephant Rock.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

We also spent time with some of Lisa\u2019s family members around the winter holidays, and got to know Jane\u2019s neighbors in her over-55 community. As her health deteriorated, we became quite attached to her regular visitors from Homeland Hospice, who became our family\u2019s lifeline: her CNA (certified nursing assistant) Sherry, who came every day to bathe and dress her; her hospice nurse Hannah, who visited weekly; and our social worker Pam, who supported us all in too many ways to count. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Jane was able to lift a glass of champagne on New Year’s Eve. She passed away a week later.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Meanwhile, we cared for Jane and tried to keep her comfortable. We watched Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy with her. The kids came home for Christmas break and got to spend time with their grandmother. Bob\u2019s sister Beth came to visit regularly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And on Jan. 7, 2020, at the age of 89, Jane Greenawalt<\/a><\/strong> left us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now the funeral is over, the spawn are back at college, and we are officially empty nesters. Although Jane\u2019s stuff still needs to be sorted and dispersed, and her condo needs to be fixed up to sell, we are deferring that till the summer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s time for us to get back to our lives, at least for a while. So we are planning to return to Mexico later this month and spend the rest of winter and half of spring there. We\u2019ll come back in late April, before Gavin\u2019s school lets out for the summer, and spend some time in Vermont before returning to PA for the next round of heavy lifting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This time we are headed for Mexico City! <\/strong>We are excited at the prospect of living in a big city, after spending the summer in rural Vermont and the fall in this Harrisburg suburb.  We are currently deciding between several condos in a safe neighborhood \u2013 Condesa, Roma Norte or Polanco \u2013 near a huge park (a requirement for us as runners). We are also looking at language schools, because we plan to study Spanish every day, at least for the first month, the way we did in Tlaquepaque last year. It will only be for two hours a day this time, because Lisa is editing her book and we want time to enjoy the city. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019ll keep you posted as things develop! Right now the plan is to leave Jan. 28 and drive our trusty Toyota Tacoma (with two cats on board; the third now lives with Gavin at school) slowly south, stopping in Cincinnati, Memphis and Austin on the way so we can see some friends and take some breaks from the road. We should arrive in CDMX (Ciudad de Mexico<\/em>, Spanish for Mexico City) on Super Bowl Sunday. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wish us luck! Hasta luego!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Mexico City, here we come!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s hard to believe it has been seven months since we left Mexico. A brief summer interlude in Vermont getting one of our vacation homes ready to sell and settling our youngest child, Gavin, into Champlain College in Burlington turned into a much longer stretch in the USA when Bob\u2019s mother, Jane, called us in … <\/p>\n

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